Go in with backup.
Your wingman gets to know you, finds you matches
worth your time, and sticks around for the conversation
if you need a hand.
Because you can’t find your person
if you don’t press send.
Starting this fall in north Brooklyn.
A Bit About Us
We’re Ben and Emily. Our story is, somewhat annoyingly, a classic: we met at a bar, we were both wooed embarrassingly fast, and the rest is history.
But we remember the before. The pit in your stomach before opening the app. The ninety-ninth profile that blurs into the hundredth. The message you drafted four times and sent to silence. If that’s where you are right now, we built Wingit for you.
Here’s what we want dating to feel like instead: lighter. You open Wingit and there’s no pile to dig through, just a few people, picked by your wingman.
You shouldn’t have to fight an app to find your person.
Wingit opens this fall in north Brooklyn.
Get on the listWingit Ethos
Dating apps ask you to trust them with the most personal things you have.
We think that trust should come with promises specific enough to break, so you’d know if we did.
Your wingman will never:
Pretend to be human.
It’s your wingman. It will always say so.
Share what you didn’t approve.
It advocates for you using only what you’ve signed off on.
Fill in the blanks.
No embellishing you, no guessing about them.
Write your messages after you match.
It coaches from your corner. Every word you send is yours.
Sell your data.
Everything it learns has one purpose: finding your person.
Keep you hooked for its own sake.
Success is a great date, not more screen time.
Show anyone your online status, typing, or read receipts.
Answer whenever you want.
That’s the promise. In writing, so you can hold us to it.
Wingit opens this fall in north Brooklyn.
Get on the listContact
Say hi or get help
hello@heywingit.com. Questions, feedback, bug reports, or anything in between.
Press
press@heywingit.com. Writing about Wingit? We’d love to talk.
Wingit opens this fall in north Brooklyn.
Get on the listThe house rules
Using Wingit
You’re 18 or older, you’re being yourself, and you’re here in good faith. That’s the deal.
Your account
Keep your login to yourself. You’re responsible for what happens on your account.
Being kind
No harassment, no spam, no pretending to be someone you’re not. Be the kind of person you’d want your wingman to introduce.
Ending things
You can leave whenever you like. We can close accounts that break these rules.
Your privacy, in plain terms
What we collect
The basics you give us: your name, age, photos, and the traits you teach your wingman. Enough to make a good intro, never more than we need.
How your wingman uses it
It reads your preferences to find people worth meeting. That’s the whole job; nothing runs off to a third party you never agreed to.
What we never do
We don’t sell your data. We don’t post as you. We don’t read your chats to sell you things.
Your choices
Download or delete everything, any time. Your account, your call.